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My ex-boyfriend likes to bully me and I'm getting scared of him. 01/17/2017
Heyy Tina c: My name is Kimmy, how are you doing? My ex-boyfriend is still so in love with me but I'm just not interested in him anymore. He hurt me way too many times that I can't stand him anymore. When we met the first time, he was the sweetest guy...
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The one sided relationship. Should I be worried? 01/18/17
Dear Tina, My name is Jeff. I have had my fair shared of bad relationships in the past. One relationship where it was 5 years and the other one was 2 1/2 years. After those two relationships ended, I started having a very low self of esteem about myself....
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I'm dating someone who feels like a game. 01/22/2017
Dear Tina, Is love really just a game? It has been my experience that men are interested – until you become interested back and show more interest in him. For months, I had a man ask me out. After an especially painful divorce, I continued to put him...
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He cut contact with his friends. 01/22/2017
Dear Tina, My longtime friend met a girl on Tinder just over a year ago, and in the past year they've gone from boyfriend/girlfriend to moving in together, and finally getting engaged. My biggest issue is that he basically cut off all of his friends from...
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She didn't tell me she was in therapy. 01/24/2017
Hii Tina, I found out that my girlfriend of more than a year has started counseling with a therapist we used as our couples counselor on three occasions. She didn't tell me she was seeing this counselor until it "slipped out." Ironically, she stated that...
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Is love just a word? 01/29/2017
Dear Tina, I've been dating a guy for nearly five years. We are both in our 50s and divorced. Very early on, while discussing our failed marriages, he was expressing how incompatible he and his ex-wife had been. I commented that he must have loved her...
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He keeps saying "I don't know". 01/27/2017
Hey Tina, Longtime reader here. I have been with my boyfriend for about five years now, all through college and now into our post-grad lives. We have recently started to discuss moving in together next September. This is something I have been wanting...
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They ignored my birthday. 02/02/2017
Dear Tina, My fiancé and I have been together for 12 years (met in high school). We recently got engaged and moved into his parents' house to save money for the wedding. His family is known for hosting almost monthly family parties in which birthdays...
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Should I hold out for someone with more brains? 02/09/2017
Dear Tina I've met the man of my dreams. He's incredibly gorgeous, and we have amazing, mind-blowing sex nightly—and usually daily as well. He's kind, morally upstanding, open-minded, and accepting, without a cynical or jaded bone in his body. He's a...
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Honesty. 02/10/2017
Dear Tina: I recently fell in love with a wonderful guy. Early in our relationship he asked me: "Is my penis the biggest you've ever been with?" I was so taken aback by the question, I gave him an honest comparison. Since then, our beautiful relationship...
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Should I leave my steady job and pursue my dreams? 02/12/17
Dear Tina: I recently placed in the top 15 of the Miss M—— pageant, on my first try! I've just turned 25, and I'm smart and motivated, with a finance degree. I've been in the same analyst position at a Fortune 500 company since I was a junior in college....
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Dealing with unrequited love. 02/06/2017
Dear Tina, I've fallen in love with "Mark." (We are both in college.) He loves and appreciates all my quirks. He thinks I'm funny and constantly tells me how beautiful I am. Mark is the most amazing person I have ever met. Kind, polite, funny, humble,...
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How do I make peace with my ex? 02/13/17
Dear Tina: I'm a high school dropout who managed to support myself and graduate Phi Beta Kappa from a very prestigious university. I'm now in my final year at one of the best law schools in the country, with a fantastic job lined up when I finish. Since...
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In an complicated situation. 01/18/2017
Dear Tina, I am in a muddle. I love two men. One is my ex-boyfriend who wants to come back to me, the other is my current boyfriend. Both are lovely men but I feel more spiritually attached to my ex. I am unable to make a decision. Do you have any tips?...
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When to get out of a toxic relationship. 01/15/17
Dear Tina, My name is Nate and I currently experiencing toxic problems with my current girlfriend. I love her and all but she always puts me down and calls me a loser. I'm not sure what to do but I don't want to leave her. Should I break up with her or...
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Reality vs Online life- 02/09/2015
Some things in reality are nice and wonderful but sometimes, it's complex and complicated. Kind of sounds like me. I would say most people who I know we're on good terms but some not really either because something happened or they are ignorant. I'm not...
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My first blog- 01/30/2015
I've been reflecting my life up to now and from what I could see is nothing has changed maybe except people. For me in general I still have those fears and anxiety within me but I could hide it because I had to hide many things in my life. Sometimes,...
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Being compare to- 02/02/2015
Hmm, I use to be compare a lot when I was little. For a example, who is more prettier, who has better marks, who is more trustworthy, who would get more guys etc etc. I wouldn't win those comparisons because I didn't really care but to my mom it use to...
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Things that are complicated- 02/03/2015
Things are complicated because it's like solving a puzzle, you don't know which way is right or wrong.Perhaps you turn this way but you end up getting lost. That's kind of how life is to me. You might feel lost and hopeless but you end up finding your...
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My depression- 02/06/2015
I have had depression for most of my life, you could say I have in and out of depression. Some days where I would be fine and some days I would crash down in meltdowns. Sometimes, it's really overwhelming and I hate it but I live with it because it's...
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Letting things go- 02/07/2015
It's hard for me to let things go, it could be something that is from a long time ago but a part of me likes to hold on. It's like good/bad that I like to hold onto moments whether it be good or bad. I do think that if you let something go, you will be...
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My anxiety- 02/08/2015
I use to have really bad anxiety when I was younger. I felt like my anxiety took over my life and I had no other choice but to listen to it. It would make me give up great chances to do great things. Good thing is over the years it has gotten better but...
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Our pancake experience of making pancakes- 02/13/2015
Me and my friend Julie made pancakes today at her house. Let's just say we kind of failed at making them because we were missing some supplies but in the end we just made circles. We wanted to make the pancakes for our friends but we didn't have a squirt...
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Tired of being tired- 02/16/2015
Have you ever been tired of being tired? I feel that sometimes because I spent most of my life being an adult than an actual kid. You might ask me, why were you being an adult for most of your life? Well, my answer is I was put into situations where I...
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Being kind and caring- 02/17/2015
Being kind and caring is something simple that us humans have. Some people might be cold hearted but suddenly someone appears and they are so kind and caring that they changed the personality of that cold hearted person. I would say I'm mean when I have...