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    <title><![CDATA[Updating about my life- 05/13/19]]></title>
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    <pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2019 22:47:20 +0200</pubDate>
    <description><![CDATA[Hey, Been over 2 years since, I had talked to you guys about my life. It's weird because last year I had the best and the worst year of my entire life and even to this day I haven't fully understand what happened, looking back now I'm proud of myself... ]]></description>
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    <title><![CDATA[I'm back- 05/12/19]]></title>
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    <pubDate>Sun, 12 May 2019 06:28:44 +0200</pubDate>
    <description><![CDATA[Hello, it's been a while guys. Thank you to everyone who still visits my blog from time to time to read my blogs despite, not being active on it anymore. I was thinking of coming back and doing blogs updating about my life because oh boy, it's been interesting... ]]></description>
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    <title><![CDATA[How do I make peace with my ex? 02/13/17]]></title>
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    <pubDate>Mon, 13 Feb 2017 23:48:54 +0100</pubDate>
    <description><![CDATA[Dear Tina: I'm a high school dropout who managed to support myself and graduate Phi Beta Kappa from a very prestigious university. I'm now in my final year at one of the best law schools in the country, with a fantastic job lined up when I finish. Since... ]]></description>
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    <title><![CDATA[Should I leave my steady job and pursue my dreams? 02/12/17]]></title>
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    <pubDate>Sun, 12 Feb 2017 20:40:59 +0100</pubDate>
    <description><![CDATA[Dear Tina: I recently placed in the top 15 of the Miss M—— pageant, on my first try! I've just turned 25, and I'm smart and motivated, with a finance degree. I've been in the same analyst position at a Fortune 500 company since I was a junior in college.... ]]></description>
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    <title><![CDATA[Did standing up for myself cost me my job? 02/11/17]]></title>
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    <pubDate>Sun, 12 Feb 2017 04:12:47 +0100</pubDate>
    <description><![CDATA[Dear Tina: My belt has tools on it. I wear boots and Carhartts instead of heels and suits. And I love my work! But I was recently let go from my full-time job in the malecentric construction industry. My boss said he "couldn't afford to keep me on." But... ]]></description>
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    <title><![CDATA[Honesty. 02/10/2017]]></title>
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    <pubDate>Sat, 11 Feb 2017 04:54:17 +0100</pubDate>
    <description><![CDATA[Dear Tina: I recently fell in love with a wonderful guy. Early in our relationship he asked me: "Is my penis the biggest you've ever been with?" I was so taken aback by the question, I gave him an honest comparison. Since then, our beautiful relationship... ]]></description>
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    <title><![CDATA[Should I hold out for someone with more brains? 02/09/2017]]></title>
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    <pubDate>Fri, 10 Feb 2017 04:22:56 +0100</pubDate>
    <description><![CDATA[Dear Tina I've met the man of my dreams. He's incredibly gorgeous, and we have amazing, mind-blowing sex nightly—and usually daily as well. He's kind, morally upstanding, open-minded, and accepting, without a cynical or jaded bone in his body. He's a... ]]></description>
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    <title><![CDATA[Are these signs he likes me? 02/07/2017]]></title>
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    <pubDate>Wed, 08 Feb 2017 03:59:04 +0100</pubDate>
    <description><![CDATA[Dear Tina, There's this guy I like at my company, and I'm not sure he likes me in return. Here are the facts: 1. He teases me. 2. He starts conversations with me that are not necessary. 3. He touches my back sometimes. 4. He cooked me dinner twice. 5.... ]]></description>
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    <title><![CDATA[Should I ask him out for lunch? 02/07/2017]]></title>
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    <pubDate>Tue, 07 Feb 2017 19:38:54 +0100</pubDate>
    <description><![CDATA[Dear Tina, I have a huge crush on a resident doctor in our hospital. I am a research assistant, and we would occasionally bump into each other in the building. There has been no formal conversation like, "Hi! My name is ... "After three months of having... ]]></description>
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    <title><![CDATA[Dealing with unrequited love. 02/06/2017]]></title>
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    <pubDate>Tue, 07 Feb 2017 05:11:46 +0100</pubDate>
    <description><![CDATA[Dear Tina, I've fallen in love with "Mark." (We are both in college.) He loves and appreciates all my quirks. He thinks I'm funny and constantly tells me how beautiful I am. Mark is the most amazing person I have ever met. Kind, polite, funny, humble,... ]]></description>
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    <title><![CDATA[I can't find the right one. 02/05/2017]]></title>
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    <pubDate>Mon, 06 Feb 2017 04:22:17 +0100</pubDate>
    <description><![CDATA[Dear Tina, I was married for over 25 years, divorced for three years, and am now in my 50s. My kids are grown and I am basically happy but for the fact that I seem to end up in a series of committed relationships that are never "the right one." Some months... ]]></description>
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    <title><![CDATA[Regrets. 02/04/2017]]></title>
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    <pubDate>Sun, 05 Feb 2017 00:13:30 +0100</pubDate>
    <description><![CDATA[Dear Tina, I broke up with my boyfriend of about two years for two reasons. The first was distance. We just aren't great when we're apart, and I'm still in school while he's graduated. We're not terribly far from each other, but I don't feel emotionally... ]]></description>
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    <title><![CDATA[The breakup only took 5 minutes. 02/03/2017]]></title>
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    <pubDate>Sat, 04 Feb 2017 04:07:36 +0100</pubDate>
    <description><![CDATA[Hi Tina, I was with someone for almost 9 years. He broke up with me three months ago. The past two years had been hard for both of us because we both had a parent diagnosed with cancer. My parent recovered, but he passed away. We moved in with his family... ]]></description>
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    <title><![CDATA[They ignored my birthday. 02/02/2017]]></title>
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    <pubDate>Fri, 03 Feb 2017 04:33:26 +0100</pubDate>
    <description><![CDATA[Dear Tina, My fiancé and I have been together for 12 years (met in high school). We recently got engaged and moved into his parents' house to save money for the wedding. His family is known for hosting almost monthly family parties in which birthdays... ]]></description>
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    <title><![CDATA[How do I avoid being led on in the future? 02/01/17]]></title>
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    <pubDate>Thu, 02 Feb 2017 02:46:49 +0100</pubDate>
    <description><![CDATA[Dear Tina, I have a huge crush on a good friend. I sit by him in class, and months ago he started to bug me and drag my desk toward him and do all sorts of middle school worthy flirty business. We texted occasionally but for hours each time. It was all... ]]></description>
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    <title><![CDATA[Live-In-Friend. 01/31/2017]]></title>
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    <pubDate>Tue, 31 Jan 2017 21:48:38 +0100</pubDate>
    <description><![CDATA[Dear Tina, I am currently supporting a guy friend who is looking for a job by offering to let him live with me. It’s been 7 months now and he still hasn’t found one, for reasons that I completely understand. The problem is that my boyfriend wants me to... ]]></description>
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    <title><![CDATA[Happy 2 years to my blog! 01/30/2017]]></title>
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    <pubDate>Tue, 31 Jan 2017 01:42:31 +0100</pubDate>
    <description><![CDATA[Wow, it's been 2 years already since I've started my blog. Time really does fly by. I remember I started this blog website because at the time I was dealing with heartbreak and the only place I could really vent my feelings was here. I'm forever grateful... ]]></description>
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    <title><![CDATA[Is love just a word? 01/29/2017]]></title>
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    <pubDate>Mon, 30 Jan 2017 04:08:18 +0100</pubDate>
    <description><![CDATA[Dear Tina, I've been dating a guy for nearly five years. We are both in our 50s and divorced. Very early on, while discussing our failed marriages, he was expressing how incompatible he and his ex-wife had been. I commented that he must have loved her... ]]></description>
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    <title><![CDATA[Do we have to discuss the breakup in person? 01/29/2017]]></title>
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    <pubDate>Mon, 30 Jan 2017 03:40:03 +0100</pubDate>
    <description><![CDATA[Hello Tina, My boyfriend just broke up with me. I had no idea why. He walked me to my car in the morning, hugged me and said "I can't do this anymore. I'm breaking up with you." I thought he was joking but he wasn't. He said he "saw something last night,"... ]]></description>
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    <title><![CDATA[Is it my boyfriend or someone I don't know? 01/28/2017]]></title>
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    <pubDate>Sun, 29 Jan 2017 04:19:52 +0100</pubDate>
    <description><![CDATA[Hey Tina, I am in my late 20s and I am lucky to be dating an amazing man, also in his late 20s. We’ve been together for several years. He is generous, handsome, and successful, but I most appreciate our exceptional communication and how he supports me... ]]></description>
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    <title><![CDATA[He keeps saying &quot;I don't know&quot;. 01/27/2017]]></title>
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    <pubDate>Sat, 28 Jan 2017 04:28:39 +0100</pubDate>
    <description><![CDATA[Hey Tina, Longtime reader here. I have been with my boyfriend for about five years now, all through college and now into our post-grad lives. We have recently started to discuss moving in together next September. This is something I have been wanting... ]]></description>
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    <title><![CDATA[Not quite head-over-heels. 01/26/2017]]></title>
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    <pubDate>Fri, 27 Jan 2017 04:22:37 +0100</pubDate>
    <description><![CDATA[Hi Tina Please help. I have been dating a great guy for four months. He is smart, sweet, cares about his family, and treats me really well. The problem is that I can't seem to get on the same page as him. He is crazy about me; his actions and words show... ]]></description>
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    <title><![CDATA[Crushing on my married friend. 01/26/17]]></title>
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    <pubDate>Fri, 27 Jan 2017 03:51:42 +0100</pubDate>
    <description><![CDATA[Hello Tina, I have fallen in love with my best guy friend who is married. We have been friends for seven years. We were in relationships when we met. As time progressed, he introduced me to his girlfriend, now wife. She and I hit it off and became good... ]]></description>
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    <title><![CDATA[She didn't tell me she was in therapy. 01/24/2017]]></title>
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    <pubDate>Wed, 25 Jan 2017 03:36:17 +0100</pubDate>
    <description><![CDATA[Hii Tina, I found out that my girlfriend of more than a year has started counseling with a therapist we used as our couples counselor on three occasions. She didn't tell me she was seeing this counselor until it "slipped out." Ironically, she stated that... ]]></description>
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    <title><![CDATA[He won't break up with her, what do I do? 01/24/2017]]></title>
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    <pubDate>Wed, 25 Jan 2017 03:16:24 +0100</pubDate>
    <description><![CDATA[Heyy Tina, I have fallen for a guy who has a girlfriend. He's been with his girlfriend for a couple of years. I had a crush on him as soon as I met him, but I knew it wouldn't go anywhere because both of us were in relationships. We always went on double... ]]></description>
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